Frustration means when someone has disappointment from his desires in life. May be he/she has disillusioned by his/her goal. He/she have failed in examination. May be some one adored has not completed then we can say that he is suffering frustration.
Nowadays frustration is very common. Everyone is tormenting, the cause is behind that we have amplified our anticipation a lot. We have far away from our religion. Our prospects, goals are increases day by day but there is no pause behind in-front of them. We have made our own limits. We don't have a time for our Parents. These are those people who have passed their young age by pain nights with our pain nights. They have shared their beautiful nights with us but Alas! We don't have enough time for giving them just one glass of water. The stimulus is that we are hectic in our exertion. If we will give time to our elders then who will attend our meeting, parties, Bars......etc.
Everyone wants to get off from the others problem. We don't want to take tension for others lives.
We just want to live just for our own selves. We want to live in our shells. No one wants to come outsides. Even, nowadays, men or women don't want to get marry. They want to fulfill their desires without any sort of legal source. That’s why the ratio of marriage is decreasing and sin is very common. We don't require friend. We all know what the importance of friend in our life is.
"A Friend is a treasure. More precious than Gold, for love shared is priceless And never grows old.” But nowadays, let suppose if someone is our friend and he has said something wrong about you by a mistake then at the spot you will take decision that u will leave him or you will have revenge in your heart. Or if the next person has pushed you by a mistake then you will just want to do him same act and then this act will definitely increase and you will just want to do kill him. In this case violence will increase in the society. Youth violence deeply harms not only its victims but also their families, friends and communities. The variation between countries in the female homicides rate is considerably less then a variation in the male rate. That’s why males are doing more suicides as comparatively to the female. Today Males don’t have patience.
Remedies:
How can we get rid off form frustration?
• Always speak truth.
• Offers five time prayers and at least one Ayat of Holy Quran with translation.
• Don’t take tension for money because here is one Almighty Who is running this huge Universe then He will definitely give money, food and shelter for you and your family.
• If you have a life partner then please don’t do any expectation to him/her because if your expectation will not fulfill then automatically here will be fight in your home.
• Think always positive.
• Be clean your home and your body and clothes.
• Try to live happy in any matter.
• If your desire has not fulfilled then plz don’t take tension, just think for one minute Allah will give you a best opportunity. He has best for you.
• Give the time to your children and especially to your old parents. Listen each and every think very carefully weather its look you bad or good.
• Take water at least 8 glass per day.
• If you are thinking that someone is understanding to you just think for one minute that you are in her/his place then what you will do………..? you will definitely get your loose point and then you can do better handle your situation.
• Always follow the rule , “Do respect and take respect.”
Note: I have posted this post on http://youngsters-sabahat.blogspot.com/ as well but I am no more managing that blog. Thanks
